Seeking Arrangement Not Working? Here's What to Do
If Seeking is down, glitching, or your account got banned, you're not alone. Here's what's happening and where to go instead.
By Serena Cole
If you're here, Seeking Arrangement probably just crashed, logged you out, or banned your account for no reason. It happens more than you'd think.
Common Seeking Arrangement problems
- Site is down or slow: Seeking has periodic outages, especially during peak hours. Check DownDetector to confirm it's not just you.
- Account banned without warning: Seeking's moderation has gotten aggressive since the rebrand. Using words like "allowance," "arrangement," or "PPM" can trigger automatic bans.
- Can't log in: Try clearing your cache, using a different browser, or resetting your password. If that doesn't work, your account may have been suspended.
- Messages not sending: Free accounts have severe messaging limits. This is by design to push you toward the .99/month Premium plan.
- Profiles not loading: The mobile app frequently has bugs. Try the desktop site instead.
If your Seeking account was banned
Seeking bans accounts for using normal sugar dating language, getting reported (even falsely), or using a VPN. The appeal process rarely works, most users report generic responses and denied appeals with no explanation.
If you've been banned, the fastest solution is to move to a platform that doesn't punish you for using it as intended.
The best alternative when Seeking isn't working
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