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Date someone
worth your time.

Browse full profiles free, and see who's verified with a live selfie before the first message. Say what you're looking for and meet people who want the same.

Inside the app

Five picks a day, then everyone else.

Every day Discover puts a short list of people chosen for you above the full grid. Open any profile in full, photos included, and like or match for free. Verified badges show who has passed the optional live-selfie check.

See who's on today
Illustration of the Discover screen. Not real members.

From our member data

of men’s first messages get a reply
37%
reply rate at 1,000+ miles — distance doesn’t hurt
37%
median time to a reply
~7 hours
Read the 2026 data report →

The big sugar dating sites charge $110+ a month or sell credits by the message. We think that's backwards.

Verification built in

Photo verification is available for every member. Verified badges show you who's real before you send the first message.

Women never pay

Not a trial. Not a limited version. Full access, unlimited messaging, zero cost, forever. We don't charge both sides.

Half the price of Seeking

Seeking charges $109.99/month for Premium (DatingScout, Sept 2026). Arranged messaging starts at $49.99, with no credit packs and no per-message fees.

If you know what you want

You've done well. Date like it.

Verify your photos once, and every person you match with knows you're real before the conversation starts. Travel mode, privacy controls, and people who respect your time.

Create your profile

If you're tired of the apps

Stop swiping on people who waste your time.

Photo verification is available to every member on Arranged. Say what you're looking for upfront. Women join and message free.

Join free — it stays free

Why people choose Arranged

Seeking used to be the only option. Then their top tier went to $274.99/month for Diamond and their iOS app went away.

Arranged exists because we thought that was ridiculous. Photo verification should be free for everyone, not a premium add-on. A good experience shouldn't cost $275 a month. And the platform shouldn't charge the person being pursued.

$49.99

Premium, per month

$0

For women, always

Free

Live-selfie photo verification

Set up takes two minutes. We're not exaggerating.

No 40-question personality survey. No algorithms deciding who you're allowed to talk to.

01

Say what you want

Your profile states your expectations clearly. Arrangement type, lifestyle, what you bring. No ambiguity.

02

Get verified

Photo verification for everyone. It takes five minutes and it's worth it.

03

Message anyone

No waiting for a match. If you like someone's profile, say hello. The best connections start with honest conversation.

04

Meet in person

Dinner, a weekend trip, whatever works for both of you. Travel mode lets you connect in any city before you arrive.

Pricing that doesn't feel like a scam

One side of the app is free — no trial, no catch. The other starts free too, and upgrades when they want unlimited messaging.

Comparable platforms charge $109.99/month for Premium and $274.99/month for their top tier. Arranged starts at $49.99/month.

Full pricing breakdown

Free

$0/mo

Browse, match, see who liked you

Premium

$49.99/mo

Read & send unlimited messages

Diamond

$99.99/mo

Messaging, privacy, priority, weekly boost, badge

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You already know what you want.
Come find it.

Your profile takes two minutes. Women never pay; men browse free and message from $49.99/mo. No commitment, cancel anytime.